Wednesday, August 8, 2007

August 5th

August 5th is my birthday. On that day I was chatting with
this guy who we were supposed to be dating. He was sick a
bit and didn't want to have a vioce chat.

Anyway, while we were chatting other net pals were wishing
me happy birthday so it took me a while to respond back to
my supposed to be boyfriend. Anyway, he got pissed off cuz
I wasn't paying him 2 much attention. Actually, if I were
him I would feel the same but the thing is he didn't even
remember it was my birthday.

I know I shouldn't make a big deal out of this besides we
can't compare what I have done to what he has done to me.
I called him many times and his phone keeps giving me the
same message can't be reached or whatever. Then I sent him
an email told him if he doesn't want talk to me just say it.
I sent the email few days ago and didn't get a response from
him yet.

His birthday is soon I will wait till then or at least I will
keep calling him or send him a birthday card but after that if
there is no thank you card or anything then I take it seriously
he really doesn't want to talk anymore. The question which should
be asked does that mean the relationship is over? If you don't want
to talk, it's your right not to talk to me but at the same time a
thank you note or reply to an email that is good manner.
Thankfully, my parents taught me to keep my manners.

23 comments:

LORD.M.M said...

عزيزي علي ...

كل عام وانت بألف خير ..اولا ..

ثانيا ..لك ان تعتب عليه ..
وان توقف كل رسائلك له ..اذا لم يريد الاجابة ..
فدعه ..و لا تقبل منه تبرير ,,

شيء فظيع ان يقطعك انسان فجأة بدون مبرر و لا رسالة او مكالمة ..شيء فظ و غير مقبول تمام ..
لا ترسل له اي رسالة او تهنئة ..

و ليس له ان يغضب ان كنت شردت عنه قليلا ..قد يعتب ..لكن ليس اكثر ..

انا حزين لما حدث ..فعلا ..لأنك تستحق كل الخير ,,

و اتمنى لك الافضل ..

تحياتي

Amjad said...

So you're really gay? Oh well...

momo said...

hey man
yahoooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
happy birthday
stars is shine
all of our frinds on the top of a mountain in sudan seeing the moon and stars around it
its the birthday of MR.ALI
woooooooooooow
happy bithday man
i c u have to be more pateint and if he dont wanna talk to u
its ok he is the loser
hope c u soon
bye bye

Ali said...

سلام لورد

شكرا جزيلا يامان

لا داعي للحزن هو مجرد درس ولازم اتعلمه



شكرا مرة اخرى

Ali said...

hey amjad

thanks for stopping by, bro, guess in ur case I should be callin u son, lol

Seems like u kinda missed (blackgayarab - gay and proud)on the main banner on my blog.

thanks again

Ali said...

hello momo

thanks a zillion

I'm sure the people in Sudan would
really love it, if the sky is clear and the stars are shining cuz as I hear it's raining heavily there...

there is no loss, dude, it's a just a lesson for both of us we needed to learn.

Anonymous said...

صديقي علي
عيد ميلاد سعيد
و ارجو من الله أن يبعد عنك كل مل يحزنك أو يغضبك
أتمنى ايضا أن تعود المياه لمجاريها ... أتمنى
شكرا جزيلا لتهنئتك لي وحبيبي بعامنا الأول مرتين او أكثر ... كان شيئا لطيفا منك
تقبل تحياتي و كل عام و انت بخير

AMRO .O. ABDELHALIM said...

صديقى على
كل سنه وانت طيب، وعقبال مليون سنة من السعادة والحب والنجاح
عزيزى ارجو ان لا تحزن واعلم ان هذا الشخص لا يستحق اهتمامك فمن الواضح انك اعيته عدة فرص ليظهر اهتمامه ويعبر عن مشاعرة فلم يفعل
ان كنت ترى ضرورة التواصل معه فى عيد ميلاده فافعل ولكنى لست من انصار بذل المشاعر لمن لا يستحقها
اعتزر ان تاخرت فى التهنئة فلم ارى البوست الا الان
تحياتى لك

Ali said...

سلام ياسين

شكرا جزيلا لك يامان

اتمنى تكون قضيت او مازلت تقضي وقت ممتع في اجازتك

وانشاء الله الامور ستكون على مايرام

عفوا يامان واتمنى لكما كل التوفيق


شكرا

Ali said...

سلام المتوحد

شكرا جزيلا يامان ولا يهمك اصلا
انا وضعت الموضوع متاخر

بصراحة انا مع التواصل لان هناك
لحظات تشاركنا فيها و و و و


وشكرا

Heart Beat said...

Dear

It is my b'day also on 05 August, wat a nice conincidence..

Happy Birthday dear friend

sorry for wat happnd on ur birthday frm ur boyfriens n yeh tell me about it, i hv been der before

im wz ur openion send him a birthday card just for the gud timez was bet u n him not a reminder of love just a simple greetings frm a friend to d odr

and dnt wait for a reply...seems it is ended already

and if he asked u to talk...den listen and see wat ur heart will tell u

but still snd d card plz and dnt expect a reply

Ali said...

hello heart beat

Happy Birthday to you too. I'm so sorry for the delayed wishing.

Well, I sent him the card and we kinda chatted but I guess I pissed the hell out of him.

I do understand his position, his problem is the same problem you posted in your last post (الحب المستحيل)so in his mind I'm the bastard who broke his heart cuz I don't express my feelings verbally.

He's a real good lad, he's better than good actually. I know in time we will be in touch.

roukariri said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALI
SORRY TO BE LATE BUT ACCEPT MY WISHES FROM SOMEONE U DON'T KNOW HER BUT WISHING U A HAPPY LIFE AND FOUNF UR LOVE
FOR UR X SEND HIM A WISH AND DON'T WASTE UR TIME BUT WAITING HIM

Ali said...

Hello roukariri,

thanks a zillion for your wishes, don't worry about the delay. I'm sure my ex got the e-card by now.


thanks

Gay by Nature said...

I know its too late to say but Happy Birthday to you, I never knew you were datin someone, maybe he is just an internet buddy, it seems that he is playin aroud, try to send him another email..if he didnt answer then trust me he is just a player...

Marwan

Ali said...

Hello Marwan,

Thanks man. Yeah we kinda met online.
I already did send him a card.
Anyway, I'm single again if you know anyone single gay man, just pass him my blog.


thanks

Anonymous said...

dear ali
allow me first to wish u a very very happy birthday
sorry dear it's a late one but i just knew now
your birthday also coinsides with my sweetheart that's why it s extra special
im so sorry ali for that guy did to u
i totally agree with u ali if he doesnt want the relationship to continue he should be man enough to say it instead of playing any games with u
i hope u get a call from him explaining everything
maybe he is busy or something like that
anyway i wish u a whole new year full of love ,success and happiness all around u my friend

mthlykaweyy said...

هاى
ماشى ياستاذ على
انت مبين لهم ان انا وحش
ومعندش دم ومبحسش على العموم ماشى برحتك خالص بس انا اما اشوفك هديك روصيه اجيبك الارض وانا هطلع احسن منك ومش هقلهم انت عملت ايه وايه وايه
باى ياستاذ على

mthlykaweyy said...

وبعدين رسايل ايه اللى بتتكلم عنها انا لسه شايفها الوتى وكمان ظاهره كلام ملخبط مفيهاش جمل
خاف على نفسك ياعلى منى شكلك نهايتك هتبقا على ايدى
مثلى قوى

Ali said...

hello اجندا حمرا

thank you very much. Happy Birthday to your sweetheart,better to be belated than saying nothing.

Actually, he turned out to be man enough to write it down in our last
chat that it is over and we better be
friends.

thanks again.

diary said...

عيد ميلاد سعيد
والف مبروك
واتمنى لك حياة سعيدة ومديدة
وشكرا لانك اشركاتنا بهذا الجزئ من حياتك

روز

Ali said...

سلام مثلي قوي

انا عن نفسي لم اقل بانك وحش ولا بلادم
ولكن اذا استنتج اي شخص بانك كذلك بعد ضربي بالروصية ونهايتي التي ستكون على يدك كما قلت، فلا تلومني انا


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ثم
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ثم
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وانشاء الله الايميل سوف يظهر

شكرا

Ali said...

rose سلام

شكرا جزيلا لك
واتمنى لك كل السعادة وتحقيق كل احلامك

شكرا