Monday, June 25, 2007

Coming Out!




Would you consider coming out to the world one day?


I decided to come out to the whole world if you have any suggestion
for my come out please let me know. Oh yeah, if you were gay think
as straight and let me know why I should or shouldn't come out.
And if you were straight think as gay and let me know why should
or shouldn't I come out.

9 comments:

mthlykaweyy said...

هاى صديقى على
ازيك
انا مثلى قوى
لقد قرات المقالين لديك وهم كاعاده كتباتك جيدين
اما عن راى فانه يجب ان نعبر عن نفسنا ونقول لاهلنا الاب والام الاثنان معا
اما عن راى فى الكليب فهو جميل جدا وانا اشعر على انك من اكثر المدونين الماما بالثقافه الغربيه وهذا يتضح حتى من وضعك لبعض الينكات الاجنبيه والتى قد تصفحتها منذ مده
الشى ء الاخر قد عجبنى الكليب وعجبنى استضافته لممثل الذى مثل الفيلم المثلى المعروف
ويجب ان تكون حقوقنا متساويه مع الاخرين
واننا بشر يجب ان نعيش ونشعر بانسانيتنا واذا كانت مجتمعاتنا تدفعنا الى ممارسه الجنس دون شعور بهذه الانسانيه
اذن فليسقط الجنس
كرامتى افضل
تحياتى لك وعلى فكره انا قرات انك مهندس انا كمان مهندس مثلك
وبحب البلاك اوى
باى ياجميل ومستنى بوستك اللى جاى
باى

Anonymous said...

dear ali
if u r thinking about coming out i would love to say few things to u
first im a lesbian cause u were asking on your post whoever says an advice tells who he is from his point of view
first u should be independant have your own place and secure with a good job
any arab family wont take it so easy that their son comes one day and say hey im gay they can disown him and he can lose his family forever u should put this in mind
also they might start to ask lots of questions about you being gay and relate it to religion so u should also be prepared for logic answers
i wish u good luck with whatever u will be doin just keep in mind your safety plz my friend
i will keep my fingers crossed for u :-)i think it is such a courageous thing what u r thinking comin out to your family
good luck:-)

LORD.M.M said...

مرحبا ,,

اعتقد انها ليست فكرة صائبة ..

فليس هناك داعي لأن تقول لكل العالم مع من تفضل ان تنام في الليل ..

هذه امور شخصية ..

و اعتقد ان تكون في بلد عربي هو مشكلة لك في ذلك ,,

نصيحتي ..لا تخبر اهلك بشيء ,,لا تفطر قلب والدتك و لا قلب والدك ..
دعهم يظنون ما شاؤوا ..لكن لا تدعهم يسمعون ذلك من فمك ..

تحياتي

mthlykaweyy said...

هاى
انا مثلى قوى لقد قمت بانشاء
مدونه جديده على البلوج سبوت لكى تستطيعوا التعليق فيها
ارجو ان تضيفوا هذه المدونه الجديده وتقوموا بشبط القديمه وانا منتظر تعليقاتكم وسترونها ليس كالمدونه السابقه وانتظروا ردودى على تعليقاتكم والعنوان هو
http://mthlykaweyy.blogspot.com/
منتظركم
مثلى قوى

Ali said...

سلام مثلي قوي

شكرا على تشجيعك المستمر لي
انا معك نحن بشر ويجب ان نشعر بانسانيتنا

بالنسبة للجنس والكرامة في راي لا يمكن الربط بينهما

وشكرا يامان

Ali said...

Dear اجندا حمرا

I guess you right about the arab family thing but don't you feel sometimes you owe it to yourself to let them know.

Believe me, I know if I do come out publicly the effect won't be on me alone. It would also be on my family but the question is what about me?!

Well, I'm really looking for your comments about the meaning of sex.

thanks again.

Ali said...

lord.m.m سلام

شكرا على تعليقك
وانا معك ان مسالة مع من انام هو امر شخصي وفي نفس الوقت هو جزء من شخصيتي

عندما تعرف نفسك دائما الشخص يعرف نفسة بالاشياء التي يفتخر بها

شكرا

Anonymous said...

dear ali
belive me i dont feel 100% good about not being out and sometimes i wanna shout it loud but as i always tell myself maybe if im in love with a girl and im so sure about our relationship together and we moved in together maybe i can gradually be out to my family and they can accept me when they see how happy iam
maybe because i havent been so sure about any of the girls i have ever been with that's why i thought it wasnt worth to be out who knows what tomorrow might brings
u know it is a long journey and we should be prepared for it
most welcome always my dear
:)

Ali said...

hey اجندا حمرا

I do apologize for the delay to respond.

have u been in occassion where u were with ur straight friends and wanted badly to comment in gayish way n just found urself couldn't, like a real hot gal passed by n u just wanted to say I want her or she's cinnamon cream yammy or whatever?!

I guess that's why I want to come out.

You got all the time in the world to do it, do it in ur own timing and good luck.